avoiding the tough conversations
i just read this article about parents not feeling comfortable conversing with their teenagers, especially regarding tough issues. a lot of it rings true from my own personal interaction with teens and with parents.
i agree with the article where it says, "this poll reinforces a disconcerting trend we're seeing with parents today. too many parents are avoiding tough conversations -- or tough stances -- because they're afraid of jeopardizing their relationship with their teen." but the article also says, "according to a new survey by vital-smarts, most parents of teens indicate that they are even afraid to talk to their teens about everyday issues."
how sad. i know as a parent, the threat of jeopardizing the fragile relationship between parent and child is always worrisome. but why can't a parent talk about everyday issues? are they worried the conversation will veer into dangerous territory? and what if it does? how about looking at that as a bonus to the conversation. if they have questions or are struggling with something, wouldn't you want them to come to you instead of one of their peers or even worse, to a bottle of beer or a drug of some sorts?
our kids need to know that their parents are there for them during everyday life and also during their struggles and challenges. don't shy away from your kids. don't shy away from the conversations - hard or not. be the parent. your kids will actually appreciate it and benefit greatly.
read the entire article by clicking here
i agree with the article where it says, "this poll reinforces a disconcerting trend we're seeing with parents today. too many parents are avoiding tough conversations -- or tough stances -- because they're afraid of jeopardizing their relationship with their teen." but the article also says, "according to a new survey by vital-smarts, most parents of teens indicate that they are even afraid to talk to their teens about everyday issues."
how sad. i know as a parent, the threat of jeopardizing the fragile relationship between parent and child is always worrisome. but why can't a parent talk about everyday issues? are they worried the conversation will veer into dangerous territory? and what if it does? how about looking at that as a bonus to the conversation. if they have questions or are struggling with something, wouldn't you want them to come to you instead of one of their peers or even worse, to a bottle of beer or a drug of some sorts?
our kids need to know that their parents are there for them during everyday life and also during their struggles and challenges. don't shy away from your kids. don't shy away from the conversations - hard or not. be the parent. your kids will actually appreciate it and benefit greatly.
read the entire article by clicking here
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